Q. My boss and I get along pretty well, though not always. Be that as it may, I like him and would like to find a way to do something nice for himduring the holidays. I think even a small gift would make him uncomfortable,and asking him and his wife to dinner seems equally inappropriate. A heartfelt card doesn't seem like enough but I would like to do something. What do you think?
A. Traditionally, gifts are given down. In other words, senior people give to their subordinates or the individuals who report directly to them. But if gifts are exchanged at your workplace, I think it is a great idea to make an effort during the holiday season to establish a better rapport with your boss. And you are smart to go about finding the right way. Asking a superior out to dinner before he or she has extended the invitation to you is not a good idea, so cross that off your list. If you are concerned that she would feel uncomfortable about receiving a gift from you, I would recommend something modest that perhaps you also might give to one or two other superiors. For instance, a small box of holiday chocolates or candy. Include a note expressing one or two reasons why you enjoy working for him.
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My law partner & I always give a personal Christmas gift to each of our staff members, in addition to his/her Christmas bonus. Although we neither want, nor expect a gift in return, each of them has been gracious enough to do so. One secretary, who has been here several years, did not do so this year. Do you think she is trying to send us a message?
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