Why Didn't I Get the Job?

Q. I've been unemployed for 6 months. On a recent interview at a company with a business casual dress code the hiring manager told me I was overdressed. I wore a nice pant suit; nothing outstanding and I told her I could dress casually. I did not get the job and I left with the feeling I intimidated her.

A. Whenever an individual is not offered a job after an interview, I recommend she ask why he was not offered the position. Perhaps the reason is something she could and should change. If it is something she can't change, for example, she lacks a necessary skill, then she shouldn't dwell on it and move on to the next opportunity.

So I suggest you give the woman a call and ask her if she will tell you why you did not get the job. Don't mention you suspect you may have intimidated her. Sometimes the chemistry is just not right and if you did get the job you would not be happy there anyway.