Tattoos, Neckties and an unzipped fly....

Dear Corby: Do tattoos and body piercings belong in business? There seems to be an increased number of people with tattoos on their body and a variety of locations for body piercings. Can you please comment on this and let us know what you think of this trend?

A. Some might argue that this practice is a personal issue. However, you need to proceed with caution if you want to have a serious place in the business world -- especially the corporate world. It is not yet clear whether these practices are passing fancies or the wave of the future. One thing we do know is that people change over time. Before anything permanent is done, the long-term effect should be considered. Since a tattoo is permanent, it should be put where it is not visible with everyday dress. Body piercings are a different story since the ornaments can be removed. In certain work environments, piercings are the norm, and creativity and individuality are not only accepted but also encouraged. Keep in mind that the company or corporate culture dictates how you dress and how you accessorize. Personal preference is not the determining factor. If you are working in a conservative atmosphere, then keep your look traditional and conservative. Anything that is not traditional will be considered distracting and trendy. If your boss doesn't have a tattoo or body piercing and no one else in upper management does, that's your cue that tattoos and piercings will not work in your favor.

Dear Corby: Sometimes, the businessmen I am dining with either toss their neckties over their shoulders or stick them in their shirts to keep them from getting soiled while they are eating. Is this correct behavior? Which is more appropriate, protecting the tie or leaving it alone?

A. I, too, have dined with businessmen who have done the same thing. Some men even put their napkin in the collar of their shirts to protect their ties. I guess they are trying to save on dry cleaning bills, but it is not appropriate to toss the necktie over the shoulder, stick it in their shirt or cover it with a napkin. Sounds as if they need a dining skills class.

Dear Corby: What should a woman do when she notices that a male colleague's zipper is unzipped? Is it appropriate for her to say something?

A. A woman might be inclined to ignore this embarrassing situation and not say anything. But if you don't say anything, your colleague could walk into an important meeting clueless. My recommendation is to tell one of your other male associates who can then bring it to the man's attention. By doing so, you spare the person the embarrassment of hearing it from a woman. If I were a man, that is how I would like it handled.